Sunday, January 09, 2005

Are you Stressed?

I really must share this article from the Ladies Home Journal by Megan Cherkezian:

The'Write' Way to Reduce Stress

When taking a deep breath and counting to 10 aren't enough to stem your stress, try putting pen to paper. "Writing down your feelings helps you stop dwelling on past events, which reduces stress and allows for better sleep" says James W. Pennebaker, Ph. D., professor of psychology at the University of Texas, in Austin. In fact, researchers at M.D. Anderson Cancer Center in Houston, found 21 cancer patients slept longer and with fewer interruptions during the night after venting their feelings on paper compared with 21 patients who wrote about their diet and exercise.

To stop stress from stealings your ZZZs, Dr. Pennebaker recommends setting aside 20 minutes each day for four consecutive days to write. Find a place where you won't be distracted, and pour out your thoughts without stopping - or worrying about spelling or grammar. It's not the puctuation, but the release of feelings that will make you feel better and snooze more soundly.

That's what is so great about blogging. If you're not into journaling this is a great way to get all those things on your mind off. My daughter Erin has strong opinions and I think it's great that she can get them down in print to share with others and also reduce stress. Here's to blogging and sleeping better.





Monday, January 03, 2005

Goals vs Resolutions

It always seems there is alot of fuss about New Year Resolutions. People make all these promises to themselves or others and more than likely don't succeed at keeping them. For years now I have called these resolutions, "goals". If you make the goals small enough they are easier to attain and then set another goal. A resolution is too broad, not defined enough. Here are some Top 5's that I have for myself.

Top 5 Goals for 2005:

  1. Spend more time with God
  2. Loose 20 pounds
  3. Read 20 minutes a day
  4. Save $200 more a month
  5. Love my husband more (ie. sex)

Top 5 Things I'm looking forward to in 2005:

  1. Watching Emma grow. (our granddaugher)
  2. Visiting Germany to see my daughter (Erin) and son-in-law (Mark) live.
  3. Spending time at the Cabin
  4. Weekends, holidays and days off.
  5. And anything that resembles a vacation

Top 5 Things I'm not looking forward to in 2005:

  1. Celebrating my 50th Birthday.
  2. Getting up to go to work.
  3. Mowing the lawn.
  4. Exercising
  5. Cleaning house

Top 5 Things I should cut back on:

  1. Television
  2. Computor Games
  3. Eating
  4. Swearing
  5. Staying up too late.

AND FINALLY...

Top 5 Things I should try to do more of:

  1. Reading Gods Word and praying
  2. Loving Others
  3. Square and Round Dancing
  4. Yardwork!
  5. Sewing, scrapbookking and other things I like to do.

Happy New Year one and all!!!!